If you are single and actively seeking a partner and mate may you find someone who is mature enough to love unselfishly, smart enough to appreciate you for who you really are and secure enough to take the time to make a solid foundation for your long and happy life together.
If you are happily paired may you find renewed appreciation of each other. May you carve out the time for a little romance in all of the hustle of holidays, craziness of careers, concerns of childcare, and the slings and arrows of ordinary life. May your understanding of each deepen and enrich your lives even more fully in the coming year.
If you are married and things are rough may you find safe space to come together, communicate honestly, work past the problems and create a truly supportive and loving relationship. May the holidays work a little magic for you. May you grow together and become more compassionate and understanding in the year ahead.
If you are in an abusive or decaying relationship may you both find it in your hears to forgive and let go. May the pain end. May the outcome be the best possible thing for you, for your children, for your family, for your friends, and for your estranged spouse. May the healing be true and for everyone involved. May everyone’s lives be improved, even if it means parting ways.
If you are widowed or single again may you be able to savor the sweetness of what was, without being dragged under by the pain of loss. May you find solace in family and in friends. May faith and hope enrich your days. May you find a brightness in the new year that you had not expected, but can enjoy.
May all loving relationships be recognized and accepted, celebrated and embraced.
And Very Bright and Successful New Year